This might seem like a bit of an usual exercise but what really helped me to focus on important matters was writing my obituary. My priorities became very clear to me as well. I invite you to write your obituary. There are no rules; just write about the person you want to be known as when you are gone. This is your legacy, what you want the world to be left with for having you in it. Dream big and truly feel in your heart the person you want to be known as and write it from that heart space. This is the space in which all is possible. Focus in on the qualities that describe the person you want to be known for in the end. This is not meant to be morbid. It’s only a way to focus on what matters to you. This will help you to focus on what matters to you. To allow things that fill your life that don’t matter to fall away so you have more energy and time for what does matter.